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Is Porn a Problem?

July 25, 2020 By Cutter Slagle Leave a Comment

I recently decided to conduct a survey. Nothing official, of course. I wouldn’t even begin to know how to do something like that. Also, too much work. Unpaid work. Like Todrick Hall says, “I don’t work for free; that’s not the tea, hunty. No, ma’am!” No, ma’am, indeed. Therefore, when I say I “conducted a survey,” I really texted a handful of random friends and asked for their opinion on a certain subject matter. Don’t worry random friends who may be reading this: I’ve kept you all anonymous. Anonymous, like that one time . . . You know what? A story not appropriate for sharing. So, . . .

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Filed Under: Dating Advice Tagged With: dating advice, LGBTQ blog, LGBTQ dating, LGBTQ writer, LGBTQ writing, Life lessons, Porn, relationships, The Male Carrie Bradshaw, Writing Community

Sex and Love and Relationships—Shoot Me Now!

June 28, 2020 By Cutter Slagle Leave a Comment

I can’t believe I’m writing this blog article. I can’t believe it’s necessary for me to write this blog article. Yet, here we are: sipping on hard seltzers and gossiping about sex, love, relationships, and the gay community. Fascinating stuff, really. Cue the eye roll. I partly blame myself. If you’re new to my work, shame on you. I wrote an article last year: “Be Careful What You Wish For.” Apparently, though, I didn’t read it. Too many times I’ve wished for a life similar to Carrie Bradshaw’s. Hell, I even refer to myself as “the male Carrie Bradshaw.” So, here we are: drinking hard . . .

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Filed Under: Advice, Dating Advice, Lessons Tagged With: addiction, attention, COVID-19, dating advice, Fiction Writer, LGBTQ blog, LGBTQ dating, LGBTQ tips, LGBTQ writer, LGBTQ writing, Life lessons, Love, Pride, Pride month, relationships, Social Media, The Male Carrie Bradshaw

Rejection Blows (Not In a Good Way)

June 20, 2020 By Cutter Slagle 1 Comment

I don’t often talk about the writing process—more specifically, my writing process—because I don’t find it that interesting. Everyone who writes has a different process; there is no right way or wrong way to write. As long as words somehow magically get down onto the paper, then the process is working. Simply put: If it helps you write, do it. If it doesn’t help you write, don’t do it. End of story. I write every single day. Well, try to write every single day. Fine! I have the intention to write every single day. So far, that seems to be working. I’ve managed to somehow write numerous . . .

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Filed Under: Advice, Lessons Tagged With: LGBTQ blog, LGBTQ dating, Life lessons, Literary Agents, Psychological Suspense Fiction Writer, rejection, rejection letters, relationships, Suspense Fiction Writer, The Male Carrie Bradshaw, Writing Community

Putting The Cock In Cocky

May 20, 2020 By Cutter Slagle 2 Comments

I once went on a date with this guy. Let's see . . . I have to call him something. We'll call him Mr. Douche, as I want to respect his privacy slash don't remember his real name. That's not true. I do remember his name; that's how excited I'd been to officially go out with him. Before the night of the date, I was extremely nervous. Not taking my SATs kind-of-nervous, even more so than that. I'd say it was like waiting for test results from the clinic after a busy holiday weekend kind-of-nervous. You see, I'd casually crossed paths with Mr. Douche a few times before he officially asked me . . .

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Filed Under: Advice, Dating Advice, Lessons Tagged With: dating advice, Fiction Writer, LGBTQ blog, LGBTQ dating, LGBTQ writer, LGBTQ writing, Life lessons, Psychological Suspense Fiction Writer, relationships, The Male Carrie Bradshaw, Writing Community

I Hate Box

May 14, 2020 By Cutter Slagle Leave a Comment

Now that I have your attention . . . I don't think I've ever publicly admitted that I hate box. More appropriately, I hate boxes. You may have already assumed this because, quite honestly, who in their right mind likes boxes? Not that I'm in my right mind, but you get the idea. Boxes are stifling. Boxes take up space. Boxes often times indicate a move of some sort is taking place, and there ain't nothing fun or exciting about moving! Boxes also tend to trap things: clothes, documents, people. And who—in any mindset—wants to feel trapped? Besides, trying to put me into a box is moot. . . .

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Filed Under: Advice, Lessons Tagged With: COVID-19, LGBTQ blog, LGBTQ writer, LGBTQ writing, Life lessons, relationships, The Male Carrie Bradshaw, Writer, Writing, Writing Community

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Today, twenty-four years ago, we were introduced to Carrie Bradshaw. ❤️👩🏼‍💻
". . . But the most exciting, challenging, and significant relationship of all is the one you have with yourself. And if you can find someone to love the you that you love, well, that's just fabulous." @sarahjessicaparker

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July 6, 2022

PLS!!!! DON'T!!!! HURT!!!! A!!!! SOFT-HEARTED!!!! PERSON!!!! THEY!!!! CAN'T!!!! SLEEP!!!! AT!!!! NIGHT!!!! BECAUSE!!!! OF!!!! OVERTHINKING!!!!

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June 30, 2022

You deserve someone who’s good for your mental health and never stops trying.

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May 26, 2022

you found a new world and you want to taste it
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AHHHH after 3 years of querying and getting nothing but form rejections / no response (40+ of them)…I got my first full request!! ✨✨

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"And what about the people in their lives who may eventually stumble onto these Twitter accounts? Even if the accounts are 'hidden' in some way? We all know how the Internet works; nothing is sacred. Aren’t these amateur porn stars worried about their mom seeing their junk? Their boss? Their kids? (If they have kids or plan to at some point.) Don’t they have aspirations that go beyond sex and lust and gaining attention for accomplishing something a little more impressive than knowing how to take off their pants and work a phone? Is the true problem here instant gratification? After all, that’s the world we live in now. Do these guys crave immediate likes and comments and retweets on their peter pictures in order to have a sense of accomplishment? Instead of working hard towards a goal, maybe it’s easier—quicker—to unzip and upload?"My #July column in The Rage Monthly Magazine is out now! #TheMaleCarrieBradshaw #Columnist #LGBTQIAWriter ... See MoreSee Less

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