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This Is How We Learn

December 30, 2020 By Cutter Slagle Leave a Comment

Recently, a friend told me that I was the gay, male version of Taylor Swift. I agreed, we laughed, and then both promptly ordered another round of mimosas. Okay, that’s not entirely true. This bitch is currently off the sauce—six months and counting. We’ll see how long sobriety lasts, because in these dark and trying times (yes, I’m referring to all of the excess holiday weight I’ve gained), nothing quite comforts me like eighteen dirty martinis. Anyway, I’m not exactly sure what my friend and I ordered another round of, but it’s a safe bet that it was something deep-fried. Me likes my . . .

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Filed Under: Advice, Lessons Tagged With: 2020, COVID-19, Gerald Butler, growing, learning, lessons, LGBTQ blog, LGBTQ writer, LGBTQ writing, Life lessons, Love, patience, positive thoughts, rejection, resolutions, Taylor Swift, The Male Carrie Bradshaw, Thinking, Writing Community

Do You Have Faith?

October 3, 2020 By Cutter Slagle Leave a Comment

Recently, I looked back at it . . . I mean, I looked back at my website and took inventory of my latest blog articles. From titles alone, I seem like a bitter, angry, scorned, shrill (enter your favorite adjective) bitch. And, despite what you may think you know about me, I don’t want to be any of those things. Further, I don’t ever want to be thought of as cynical or negative. If 2020 has taught us anything, it’s that life is precious. Not always easy, not always fun, but it beats the alternative. Therefore, we need to enjoy as much of it as we can. Instead of complaining about every foul . . .

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Filed Under: Advice, Lessons Tagged With: Life lessons, manifesting positivity, positive thoughts, The Law of Attraction, The Male Carrie Bradshaw, Writing Community

The Gay Community Is Fucked

September 8, 2020 By Cutter Slagle Leave a Comment

Yes, the gay community is fucked, and not in a good way. More like in a sad, pathetic, die old and alone kind of way. Well, depending on what your goals are, what you want to accomplish in this life. If you want to booze and cruise and, you know, continue to keep a running list of all the dick you can collect like some twisted, fucked up version of Pokémon Go, you might be all right. However, if you’re searching for the fairy tale like Julia Roberts in Pretty Woman, then you better put on your boots—the thigh-high ones—because there is a lot of shit to sift through before "happily ever . . .

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Filed Under: Advice, Dating Advice Tagged With: addiction, attention, dating advice, Gay Dating, Gay Lifestyle, Grindr, instant gratification, LGBTQ blog, LGBTQ dating, LGBTQ writer, Life lessons, relationships, The Male Carrie Bradshaw, Toxic Gay Lifestyle, Writing Community

WAP: Work and Patience

August 30, 2020 By Cutter Slagle Leave a Comment

Turns out, there’s more than one meaning to Cardi B’s latest hit, WAP. While her lyrics are quite impressive and fun to rap along to (I spent an entire workday last week trying to learn all of the words), I much prefer the song’s alternative message . . . which I just made up: WAP, or work and patience. Anyone reading this most likely already knows the secret to a happy, successful life: work and patience. Unfortunately, I always seem to get to the party a little late, and then I’m often immediately asked to leave. Therefore, it has taken me a little bit of time—fine, a long ass time—to . . .

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Filed Under: Advice, Lessons Tagged With: Cardi B, dating advice, hard work, LGBTQ blog, LGBTQ writer, Life lessons, patience, relationships, The Male Carrie Bradshaw, WAP, work, Writing Community

Get Off Your Fucking Phone!

August 15, 2020 By Cutter Slagle Leave a Comment

If I ever see Mark Zuckerberg in public, I’m going to walk right up to him and tell him to eat a dick. Maybe I’ll punch him in the face. Maybe I’ll just keep on walking. After all, jail is no place for a delicate flower like me. Still, I’ll at least give him the finger. (For legal purposes, let me be clear: I’m not going to attack Fuckerberg—I mean, Zuckerberg. Small joke.) Though, the same thought is present for the dimwit who created Twitter, Instagram . . . What the hell? Let’s throw in the founders of Snapchat, Tumblr, TikTok, Telegram, Grindr, porn sites, and any other app that . . .

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Filed Under: Advice Tagged With: addiction, attention, COVID-19, Internet, LGBTQ writer, LGBTQ writing, Life lessons, relationships, smartphones, Social Media, technology, The Male Carrie Bradshaw, Writing Community

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Today, twenty-four years ago, we were introduced to Carrie Bradshaw. ❤️👩🏼‍💻
". . . But the most exciting, challenging, and significant relationship of all is the one you have with yourself. And if you can find someone to love the you that you love, well, that's just fabulous." @sarahjessicaparker

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One of my favorite types of therapy: Nora’s newest book! 💙🤓🙏🏼 @norarobertsauthor

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May 26, 2022

you found a new world and you want to taste it
but that world can turn cold
and you better face it

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AHHHH after 3 years of querying and getting nothing but form rejections / no response (40+ of them)…I got my first full request!! ✨✨

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May 22, 2022

... 'Til we were dead and gone and buried
Check the pulse and come back swearing it's the same
After three months in the grave
And then you wondered where it went to as I reached for you
But all I felt was a shame, and you held my lifeless frame

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May 22, 2022

Does he make you laugh?

He doesn’t make me cry.

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"Love is so short, forgetting is so long."
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Today is #WorldBookDay — What are you currently reading? Who is your favorite author? What's one of your favorite books? 🌎🤓📚Fun Fact: April 23rd was chosen as World Book Day because it marks the anniversary of the death of William Shakespeare. ‼️✍🏻📆▪️I'm currently reading A Flicker in the Dark by Stacy Willingham. ▪️Lisa Gardner is my favorite author. ▪️One of my favorite books is A Man Called Ove by Fredrik Backman.#BooksConnectUs #ReadingIsFun #CheapEntertainment ... See MoreSee Less

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"Check your dictionary. There’s a big difference between being a private person and a mendacious person. I can’t help but wonder when this started. How it started. Why it started. This whole universal acceptance of lying to one another, especially lying to the ones we love the most. Is it a defense mechanism of some kind? Is it a way to protect ourselves, to avoid the risk of judgment? Is it an addiction? Are there people out there who actually enjoy lying and get off on tricking others?" My #April column in The Rage Monthly Magazine is out now! 🧑‍💻#TheMaleCarrieBradshaw #SanDiegoColumnist #SanDiegoWriter ... See MoreSee Less

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"'Excuses are poison,' Ed repeated. 'Doing the right thing is hard. Talking yourself out of it is easy. Does that make sense?'"—Taylor Adams, No Exit What are you currently reading? ... See MoreSee Less

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