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Drive Me Krazy

July 7, 2021 By Cutter Slagle 1 Comment

I didn't come out until I was twenty-seven years old. Sure, everyone knew I was gay, including people on Mars. Yet, I didn’t actually say the words out loud to my family until later in life. To add insult to the story—or perhaps comic relief—I came out to my family drunker than shit at a female strip club. What can I say? I’ve always had a flair for the dramatics. I don’t know what had come over me. Actually, I do. I was miserable at the time. Miserable with the guy I was dating (though, he likely would have called it stalking), miserable with my job, miserable with not being able to talk . . .

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Filed Under: Advice, Lessons Tagged With: addiction, attention, dating advice, Grindr, LGBTQ blog, LGBTQ dating, LGBTQ tips, LGBTQ writer, Life lessons, Love, Porn, relationships, Social Media, The Male Carrie Bradshaw, Toxic Gay Lifestyle, Writing Community

The Gay Community Is Fucked

September 8, 2020 By Cutter Slagle Leave a Comment

Yes, the gay community is fucked, and not in a good way. More like in a sad, pathetic, die old and alone kind of way. Well, depending on what your goals are, what you want to accomplish in this life. If you want to booze and cruise and, you know, continue to keep a running list of all the dick you can collect like some twisted, fucked up version of Pokémon Go, you might be all right. However, if you’re searching for the fairy tale like Julia Roberts in Pretty Woman, then you better put on your boots—the thigh-high ones—because there is a lot of shit to sift through before "happily ever . . .

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Filed Under: Advice, Dating Advice Tagged With: addiction, attention, dating advice, Gay Dating, Gay Lifestyle, Grindr, instant gratification, LGBTQ blog, LGBTQ dating, LGBTQ writer, Life lessons, relationships, The Male Carrie Bradshaw, Toxic Gay Lifestyle, Writing Community

WAP: Work and Patience

August 30, 2020 By Cutter Slagle Leave a Comment

Turns out, there’s more than one meaning to Cardi B’s latest hit, WAP. While her lyrics are quite impressive and fun to rap along to (I spent an entire workday last week trying to learn all of the words), I much prefer the song’s alternative message . . . which I just made up: WAP, or work and patience. Anyone reading this most likely already knows the secret to a happy, successful life: work and patience. Unfortunately, I always seem to get to the party a little late, and then I’m often immediately asked to leave. Therefore, it has taken me a little bit of time—fine, a long ass time—to . . .

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Filed Under: Advice, Lessons Tagged With: Cardi B, dating advice, hard work, LGBTQ blog, LGBTQ writer, Life lessons, patience, relationships, The Male Carrie Bradshaw, WAP, work, Writing Community

Get Off Your Fucking Phone!

August 15, 2020 By Cutter Slagle Leave a Comment

If I ever see Mark Zuckerberg in public, I’m going to walk right up to him and tell him to eat a dick. Maybe I’ll punch him in the face. Maybe I’ll just keep on walking. After all, jail is no place for a delicate flower like me. Still, I’ll at least give him the finger. (For legal purposes, let me be clear: I’m not going to attack Fuckerberg—I mean, Zuckerberg. Small joke.) Though, the same thought is present for the dimwit who created Twitter, Instagram . . . What the hell? Let’s throw in the founders of Snapchat, Tumblr, TikTok, Telegram, Grindr, porn sites, and any other app that . . .

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Is Porn a Problem?

July 25, 2020 By Cutter Slagle Leave a Comment

I recently decided to conduct a survey. Nothing official, of course. I wouldn’t even begin to know how to do something like that. Also, too much work. Unpaid work. Like Todrick Hall says, “I don’t work for free; that’s not the tea, hunty. No, ma’am!” No, ma’am, indeed. Therefore, when I say I “conducted a survey,” I really texted a handful of random friends and asked for their opinion on a certain subject matter. Don’t worry random friends who may be reading this: I’ve kept you all anonymous. Anonymous, like that one time . . . You know what? A story not appropriate for sharing. So, . . .

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“When I decided to leave was when I learned and accepted that I can’t change people, I can’t save people, only love them. I can only change myself and my circumstances.” — @pamelaanderson

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Boundaries are important, and for all types of relationships, including the relationship you have with your mom, your partner, your best friend, and your favorite pizza delivery guy.
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While exploring the idea of boundaries, I couldn’t help but think about a past fling of mine, Peter Rabbit. Peter Rabbit and I only saw each other for a couple of months. Our first date was classic: dinner, drinks, dancing, dick down. In that order. Oh, to be back in my twenties. Kidding! I’m extremely happy to have outgrown some behaviors of my youth.

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“ ‘I do enjoy my life,’ Steve said. ‘And my work. Maybe problems arise when you’re just too focused on the results. The joy is in the process, the trying. The pursuit.’ “ —Catherine Ryan Howard, Run Time#MondayMotivate ... See MoreSee Less

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There was a turning pointwhen I felt freeto be myselfand not just exist in survival mode—Liberation—when I realized I was my own worst critic,I decided to shed the paralyzing shyness that I was imprisoned by—Realizing that life is happening withor without me. A mindset: If others can be it,So can I. To the young girls and boys out there who are painting their own lives, “Winging it,”You’re not crazy. You’re brave like me. Independent thinking and Disobedienceare important—And,you are going to be okay. I wish someone told me that. And if they did, I wish I believed them. I became a warrior, A destroyerof old beliefs, Slaying dragons. I embraced the illuminating thought: I am “good enough.”I am powerful—Oh am I . . . —Love, PamelaPamela Anderson ... See MoreSee Less

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I wondered then and wonder now: When you’re dating someone, how much influence should that person’s friends and family have on the relationship? Are you actually dating that person’s friends and family, too? Or is the relationship only between the two people in the relationship, and should everyone else simply fuck off?Let’s say it together: boundaries.#TheMaleCarrieBradshaw #NewBlogAlert #Blogging ... See MoreSee Less

Teach Me How to Boundary

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Do you have trouble setting boundaries with people? You're not alone. However, in order to have healthy, fulfilling relationships, boundaries are essential.
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Don't miss my February column in The Rage Monthly Magazine — Out now! #TheMaleCarrieBradshaw "Hope is essential, but it’s not enough. To just simply hope will almost always end in disappointment, and probably pretty quickly. In order for hope to work—truly work—we’ve got to work, and the work isn’t always easy. On the contrary, it can be fucking hard. Hope can only take us so far, then it’s up to us and the work we’ve done to finish the job." ... See MoreSee Less

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