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The “F” Word

June 27, 2021 By Cutter Slagle Leave a Comment

It should come as no big surprise that my favorite “F” word is fuck. I especially like this word when it’s dressed up with motherfucker or go fuck yourself. My fascination with the “F” word began at a pretty young age. I have a distinct memory of me running around the house, four or five years old, telling anyone in my line of vision: “Don’t fuck with the babysitter.” I guess I also had a fascination with Elizabeth Shue’s character in Adventures in Babysitting. Yes, I was a handful as a child. And, as most people in my life can attest, still am a handful. However, today, we’re going . . .

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Filed Under: Advice, Lessons Tagged With: Forgiveness, LGBTQ blog, LGBTQ writer, LGBTQ writing, Life lessons, Love, patience, Second Chances, self-love, Self-respect, The Male Carrie Bradshaw, Writing Community

Déjà Fuck

February 26, 2021 By Cutter Slagle Leave a Comment

I feel like my last few blog articles have been heavy. No, I’m not going to make a fat joke here. Surprise, bitch! Yet, it’s obvious, and I think note-worthy, that I’ve gone kind of deep lately. Well, deeper than normal for me. No, I’m not going to make a sex joke here. Surprise, bitch—again! Also, get your mind out of the gutter. Actually, to be fair, in order to enjoy this particular article, you might want to keep your mind in the gutter. That’s your warning to skip this particular piece of content, Mom, Dad, teachers from the past . . . anyone and everyone who may not be overly excited . . .

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Filed Under: Lessons Tagged With: Beyoncé, déjà vu, Denzel Washington, Gay Lifestyle, Jay-Z, LGBTQ blog, LGBTQ writer, LGBTQ writing, Life lessons, Pride, Pride month, The Male Carrie Bradshaw, Writing Community

Attention Whore

February 15, 2021 By Cutter Slagle Leave a Comment

I’m the type of person who beats a dead horse until it’s, well, dead. And then, just to make sure it’s really dead, I circle back once, twice, thirty-three times to verify. Sorry for the metaphor, PETA. Yet, you can rest easy knowing that no animals were harmed in the making of this blog article. In my previous articles, I’ve bitched about men, social media, phones . . . You’re right: At this rate, we’ll be here for a while. Let’s save some time and say I’ve bitched about quite a lot over the past two years. In writing, anyway. Yeah, sure, in person, too. Today is no different; I’m here . . .

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Filed Under: Advice Tagged With: addiction, attention, Fiction Writer, Gay Lifestyle, instant gratification, Internet, LGBTQ blog, LGBTQ writer, LGBTQ writing, Life lessons, Social Media, The Male Carrie Bradshaw, Writer, Writing, Writing Community

Sex Sells . . . Your Self-Respect

January 17, 2021 By Cutter Slagle 2 Comments

I have a problem. Insert joke, right? Because, as we all know (those who stay up to date with my blog and column, anyway), I have more than just a problem. However, the problem I have today, the problem I’m facing this Sunday morning, is—go figure—the gay community. Last fall, I wrote an article on how disappointed I am in the gay community. Well, plot twist, the gay community is still disappointing and disheartening. Or, to be blunt, the gay community is STILL fucked. Let's have an open chat because I'm genuinely curious about something: What is the appeal of posting pictures of . . .

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Filed Under: Advice, Lessons Tagged With: addiction, attention, gay community, gay culture, Gay Lifestyle, instant gratification, Internet, LGBTQ blog, LGBTQ tips, LGBTQ writer, LGBTQ writing, Life lessons, Puerta Vallarta, Self-respect, sex, Social Media, The Male Carrie Bradshaw, Toxic Gay Lifestyle, Trump, Twitter, Writer, Writing, Writing Community

Turn and Face the Strange

January 5, 2021 By Cutter Slagle Leave a Comment

Sorry to disappoint, kids, but this blog article, the very first of 2021, has nothing to do with hooking up with some rando (i.e. “strange”) from a local bar, bathhouse, or Craigslist. You know, COVID and all. But, also, I’m happily off the market. Besides, I was never really into that type of scene, anyway—regardless of who you may talk to later. I always preferred to get to know a guy before allowing things to turn intimate. Well, I’d at least learn his first name (in almost all cases) and tax bracket before taking that next step. What can I say? With me, there is usually slash rarely a . . .

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Filed Under: Advice Tagged With: change, David Bowie, LGBTQ blog, LGBTQ writer, LGBTQ writing, Life lessons, positive thoughts, Sarah Jessica Parker, The Law of Attraction, The Male Carrie Bradshaw, Writer, Writing, Writing Community

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“Have enough courage to trust love one more time and always one more time.” 💚
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Today, twenty-four years ago, we were introduced to Carrie Bradshaw. ❤️👩🏼‍💻
". . . But the most exciting, challenging, and significant relationship of all is the one you have with yourself. And if you can find someone to love the you that you love, well, that's just fabulous." @sarahjessicaparker

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One of my favorite types of therapy: Nora’s newest book! 💙🤓🙏🏼 @norarobertsauthor

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May 26, 2022

you found a new world and you want to taste it
but that world can turn cold
and you better face it

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AHHHH after 3 years of querying and getting nothing but form rejections / no response (40+ of them)…I got my first full request!! ✨✨

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May 22, 2022

... 'Til we were dead and gone and buried
Check the pulse and come back swearing it's the same
After three months in the grave
And then you wondered where it went to as I reached for you
But all I felt was a shame, and you held my lifeless frame

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May 22, 2022

Does he make you laugh?

He doesn’t make me cry.

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May 22, 2022

"Love is so short, forgetting is so long."
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Today is #WorldBookDay — What are you currently reading? Who is your favorite author? What's one of your favorite books? 🌎🤓📚Fun Fact: April 23rd was chosen as World Book Day because it marks the anniversary of the death of William Shakespeare. ‼️✍🏻📆▪️I'm currently reading A Flicker in the Dark by Stacy Willingham. ▪️Lisa Gardner is my favorite author. ▪️One of my favorite books is A Man Called Ove by Fredrik Backman.#BooksConnectUs #ReadingIsFun #CheapEntertainment ... See MoreSee Less

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"Check your dictionary. There’s a big difference between being a private person and a mendacious person. I can’t help but wonder when this started. How it started. Why it started. This whole universal acceptance of lying to one another, especially lying to the ones we love the most. Is it a defense mechanism of some kind? Is it a way to protect ourselves, to avoid the risk of judgment? Is it an addiction? Are there people out there who actually enjoy lying and get off on tricking others?" My #April column in The Rage Monthly Magazine is out now! 🧑‍💻#TheMaleCarrieBradshaw #SanDiegoColumnist #SanDiegoWriter ... See MoreSee Less

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"'Excuses are poison,' Ed repeated. 'Doing the right thing is hard. Talking yourself out of it is easy. Does that make sense?'"—Taylor Adams, No Exit What are you currently reading? ... See MoreSee Less

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