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Let It Go—For Real, Though!

January 5, 2022 By Cutter Slagle Leave a Comment

If there’s one thing everyone can agree on, it’s that Idris Elba should consider doing a full-frontal nude scene. If there are two things we can agree on, it’s that life is hard. Finally, three things the majority of people reading this can agree on: It’s time to light a match and burn this motherfucker down to the ground. Or, to be a little more PC . . . It’s time to let shit go. Really let it go. The “it” stated above can refer to anything in your life that is not currently fulfilling you. A job, a residence, a partner, an in-law, pizza. Again, life is hard and way too short to settle . . .

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Filed Under: Advice Tagged With: LGBTQ blog, LGBTQ writer, Life lessons, resolutions, Self-respect, The Male Carrie Bradshaw, Writing Community

Older and Wiser? Or Just Older?

December 13, 2021 By Cutter Slagle Leave a Comment

Birthdays are interesting. Some people choose to celebrate all week long, craving the attention, begging for anyone and everyone to know their special day is coming. Others want to ignore the day, hide from it, pretend it’s not so special or anything overly important to celebrate. The rest of us fall somewhere in the middle. Of course, there is no right way or wrong way to celebrate your birthday. After all, it’s your day, right? And you have the right to act, feel, do, say whatever you deem appropriate—within reason, obviously. What I personally don’t understand is how someone can hate . . .

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Filed Under: Lessons Tagged With: attention, LGBTQ blog, LGBTQ writer, Life lessons, The Male Carrie Bradshaw, Writing Community

Eat, Pray, Love—Then Eat Again

August 22, 2021 By Cutter Slagle Leave a Comment

Back in May, I lit a match to my life. Things weren’t working out; I wasn’t happy. Change, though terrifying to consider and actually follow through with, seemed not only necessary but vital for my emotional and mental survival. As a result, I’ve been called everything from a pussy to a motherfucker to courageous for taking charge of my life and—as my cousin would say—hitting the reset button. Am I running? Am I moving forward? Who the fuck knows? Not me, not yet. Probably not any time soon, either. You see, I’ve been traveling. Ohio. New Jersey. New York City. Florida. Nashville. . . .

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Filed Under: Lessons Tagged With: addiction, attention, Gay Lifestyle, LGBTQ blog, LGBTQ writer, LGBTQ writing, Life lessons, Love, patience, Porn, relationships, Self-respect, Social Media, The Male Carrie Bradshaw, Toxic Gay Lifestyle, Writing Community

What’s Your Intent?

July 22, 2021 By Cutter Slagle 2 Comments

When I was in second grade, I was the Riddler from Batman Forever for Halloween. How fitting that all these years later, I’d be consumed by questions. Drowning, really, in what-ifs and if-onlys. Weighed down by hows, whys, and whens. Weighed down by riddles, if you will. After my first two crime fiction novels (The Next Victim and ‘Til Death) were published, I did a few book signings and was often asked the same question from attendees: Why do you write about murder? Yep, another question, and one I didn’t know how to answer until recently. Back then, I thought I chose to write in the . . .

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Drive Me Krazy

July 7, 2021 By Cutter Slagle 1 Comment

I didn't come out until I was twenty-seven years old. Sure, everyone knew I was gay, including people on Mars. Yet, I didn’t actually say the words out loud to my family until later in life. To add insult to the story—or perhaps comic relief—I came out to my family drunker than shit at a female strip club. What can I say? I’ve always had a flair for the dramatics. I don’t know what had come over me. Actually, I do. I was miserable at the time. Miserable with the guy I was dating (though, he likely would have called it stalking), miserable with my job, miserable with not being able to talk . . .

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Filed Under: Advice, Lessons Tagged With: addiction, attention, dating advice, Grindr, LGBTQ blog, LGBTQ dating, LGBTQ tips, LGBTQ writer, Life lessons, Love, Porn, relationships, Social Media, The Male Carrie Bradshaw, Toxic Gay Lifestyle, Writing Community

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“Have enough courage to trust love one more time and always one more time.” 💚
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Today, twenty-four years ago, we were introduced to Carrie Bradshaw. ❤️👩🏼‍💻
". . . But the most exciting, challenging, and significant relationship of all is the one you have with yourself. And if you can find someone to love the you that you love, well, that's just fabulous." @sarahjessicaparker

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One of my favorite types of therapy: Nora’s newest book! 💙🤓🙏🏼 @norarobertsauthor

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⁉️Do you find it hard to trust people?⁉️
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July 6, 2022

PLS!!!! DON'T!!!! HURT!!!! A!!!! SOFT-HEARTED!!!! PERSON!!!! THEY!!!! CAN'T!!!! SLEEP!!!! AT!!!! NIGHT!!!! BECAUSE!!!! OF!!!! OVERTHINKING!!!!

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June 30, 2022

You deserve someone who’s good for your mental health and never stops trying.

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May 26, 2022

you found a new world and you want to taste it
but that world can turn cold
and you better face it

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May 25, 2022

AHHHH after 3 years of querying and getting nothing but form rejections / no response (40+ of them)…I got my first full request!! ✨✨

I know it might not mean much still, but I’m happy to get even this far 🥹

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May 22, 2022

... 'Til we were dead and gone and buried
Check the pulse and come back swearing it's the same
After three months in the grave
And then you wondered where it went to as I reached for you
But all I felt was a shame, and you held my lifeless frame

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"And what about the people in their lives who may eventually stumble onto these Twitter accounts? Even if the accounts are 'hidden' in some way? We all know how the Internet works; nothing is sacred. Aren’t these amateur porn stars worried about their mom seeing their junk? Their boss? Their kids? (If they have kids or plan to at some point.) Don’t they have aspirations that go beyond sex and lust and gaining attention for accomplishing something a little more impressive than knowing how to take off their pants and work a phone? Is the true problem here instant gratification? After all, that’s the world we live in now. Do these guys crave immediate likes and comments and retweets on their peter pictures in order to have a sense of accomplishment? Instead of working hard towards a goal, maybe it’s easier—quicker—to unzip and upload?"My #July column in The Rage Monthly Magazine is out now! #TheMaleCarrieBradshaw #Columnist #LGBTQIAWriter ... See MoreSee Less

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