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Attention Whore

February 15, 2021 By Cutter Slagle Leave a Comment

I’m the type of person who beats a dead horse until it’s, well, dead. And then, just to make sure it’s really dead, I circle back once, twice, thirty-three times to verify. Sorry for the metaphor, PETA. Yet, you can rest easy knowing that no animals were harmed in the making of this blog article. In my previous articles, I’ve bitched about men, social media, phones . . . You’re right: At this rate, we’ll be here for a while. Let’s save some time and say I’ve bitched about quite a lot over the past two years. In writing, anyway. Yeah, sure, in person, too. Today is no different; I’m here . . .

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Filed Under: Advice Tagged With: addiction, attention, Fiction Writer, Gay Lifestyle, instant gratification, Internet, LGBTQ blog, LGBTQ writer, LGBTQ writing, Life lessons, Social Media, The Male Carrie Bradshaw, Writer, Writing, Writing Community

Sex Sells . . . Your Self-Respect

January 17, 2021 By Cutter Slagle 2 Comments

I have a problem. Insert joke, right? Because, as we all know (those who stay up to date with my blog and column, anyway), I have more than just a problem. However, the problem I have today, the problem I’m facing this Sunday morning, is—go figure—the gay community. Last fall, I wrote an article on how disappointed I am in the gay community. Well, plot twist, the gay community is still disappointing and disheartening. Or, to be blunt, the gay community is STILL fucked. Let's have an open chat because I'm genuinely curious about something: What is the appeal of posting pictures of . . .

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Filed Under: Advice, Lessons Tagged With: addiction, attention, gay community, gay culture, Gay Lifestyle, instant gratification, Internet, LGBTQ blog, LGBTQ tips, LGBTQ writer, LGBTQ writing, Life lessons, Puerta Vallarta, Self-respect, sex, Social Media, The Male Carrie Bradshaw, Toxic Gay Lifestyle, Trump, Twitter, Writer, Writing, Writing Community

The Gay Community Is Fucked

September 8, 2020 By Cutter Slagle Leave a Comment

Yes, the gay community is fucked, and not in a good way. More like in a sad, pathetic, die old and alone kind of way. Well, depending on what your goals are, what you want to accomplish in this life. If you want to booze and cruise and, you know, continue to keep a running list of all the dick you can collect like some twisted, fucked up version of Pokémon Go, you might be all right. However, if you’re searching for the fairy tale like Julia Roberts in Pretty Woman, then you better put on your boots—the thigh-high ones—because there is a lot of shit to sift through before "happily ever . . .

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Filed Under: Advice, Dating Advice Tagged With: addiction, attention, dating advice, Gay Dating, Gay Lifestyle, Grindr, instant gratification, LGBTQ blog, LGBTQ dating, LGBTQ writer, Life lessons, relationships, The Male Carrie Bradshaw, Toxic Gay Lifestyle, Writing Community

Get Off Your Fucking Phone!

August 15, 2020 By Cutter Slagle Leave a Comment

If I ever see Mark Zuckerberg in public, I’m going to walk right up to him and tell him to eat a dick. Maybe I’ll punch him in the face. Maybe I’ll just keep on walking. After all, jail is no place for a delicate flower like me. Still, I’ll at least give him the finger. (For legal purposes, let me be clear: I’m not going to attack Fuckerberg—I mean, Zuckerberg. Small joke.) Though, the same thought is present for the dimwit who created Twitter, Instagram . . . What the hell? Let’s throw in the founders of Snapchat, Tumblr, TikTok, Telegram, Grindr, porn sites, and any other app that . . .

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Filed Under: Advice Tagged With: addiction, attention, COVID-19, Internet, LGBTQ writer, LGBTQ writing, Life lessons, relationships, smartphones, Social Media, technology, The Male Carrie Bradshaw, Writing Community

Sex and Love and Relationships—Shoot Me Now!

June 28, 2020 By Cutter Slagle Leave a Comment

I can’t believe I’m writing this blog article. I can’t believe it’s necessary for me to write this blog article. Yet, here we are: sipping on hard seltzers and gossiping about sex, love, relationships, and the gay community. Fascinating stuff, really. Cue the eye roll. I partly blame myself. If you’re new to my work, shame on you. I wrote an article last year: “Be Careful What You Wish For.” Apparently, though, I didn’t read it. Too many times I’ve wished for a life similar to Carrie Bradshaw’s. Hell, I even refer to myself as “the male Carrie Bradshaw.” So, here we are: drinking hard . . .

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“There are numerous ways of getting attention online. And, because almost everyone has a social media presence, it can be extra difficult to stand out from the masses. Enter Twitter Dicks. Some people post bare ass pictures of themselves to get attention, while others share every single detail of their lives on Facebook and Instagram as if they’re some sort of celebrity updating their ‘fans’ on what’s new.”
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March 1, 2021

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February 28, 2021

"I did not say that faith was easy; merely that it was necessary."
— Kristin Hannah, Firefly Lane

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February 28, 2021

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February 26, 2021

"It all depends on how we look at things." C.G. Jung

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February 25, 2021

I still ain't ready.

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To paint you a picture, I was at a dive bar that liked to keep its interior extremely dark. Maybe the electric bill was never paid, or perhaps the owners just didn’t want anyone to see what they might step in. One of life’s great mysteries that will never be solved.Anyway, cut to me feeling the rhythm of the night, the night, oh, yeah, as I did the gay lap/loop around the cave-esque establishment—you guessed it—searching. This particular search had led me outside to the enclosed patio section, where I promptly ordered a cheeseburger (yes, two cheeseburgers) and a bag of potato chips.#TheMaleCarrieBradshaw #Blog #Blogging #Blogger #NewBlogAlert #WritingCommunity ...

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We've all experienced déjà vu before, right? But what about a déjà fuck? Yes, it's exactly what you think it is, and it can happen to the best of us. Okay, it can happen to the worst of us, too.
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