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The Gay Community Is Fucked

September 8, 2020 By Cutter Slagle Leave a Comment

Yes, the gay community is fucked, and not in a good way. More like in a sad, pathetic, die old and alone kind of way. Well, depending on what your goals are, what you want to accomplish in this life. If you want to booze and cruise and, you know, continue to keep a running list of all the dick you can collect like some twisted, fucked up version of Pokémon Go, you might be all right. However, if you’re searching for the fairy tale like Julia Roberts in Pretty Woman, then you better put on your boots—the thigh-high ones—because there is a lot of shit to sift through before "happily ever . . .

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Filed Under: Advice, Dating Advice Tagged With: addiction, attention, dating advice, Gay Dating, Gay Lifestyle, Grindr, instant gratification, LGBTQ blog, LGBTQ dating, LGBTQ writer, Life lessons, relationships, The Male Carrie Bradshaw, Toxic Gay Lifestyle, Writing Community

WAP: Work and Patience

August 30, 2020 By Cutter Slagle Leave a Comment

Turns out, there’s more than one meaning to Cardi B’s latest hit, WAP. While her lyrics are quite impressive and fun to rap along to (I spent an entire workday last week trying to learn all of the words), I much prefer the song’s alternative message . . . which I just made up: WAP, or work and patience. Anyone reading this most likely already knows the secret to a happy, successful life: work and patience. Unfortunately, I always seem to get to the party a little late, and then I’m often immediately asked to leave. Therefore, it has taken me a little bit of time—fine, a long ass time—to . . .

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Filed Under: Advice, Lessons Tagged With: Cardi B, dating advice, hard work, LGBTQ blog, LGBTQ writer, Life lessons, patience, relationships, The Male Carrie Bradshaw, WAP, work, Writing Community

Get Off Your Fucking Phone!

August 15, 2020 By Cutter Slagle Leave a Comment

If I ever see Mark Zuckerberg in public, I’m going to walk right up to him and tell him to eat a dick. Maybe I’ll punch him in the face. Maybe I’ll just keep on walking. After all, jail is no place for a delicate flower like me. Still, I’ll at least give him the finger. (For legal purposes, let me be clear: I’m not going to attack Fuckerberg—I mean, Zuckerberg. Small joke.) Though, the same thought is present for the dimwit who created Twitter, Instagram . . . What the hell? Let’s throw in the founders of Snapchat, Tumblr, TikTok, Telegram, Grindr, porn sites, and any other app that . . .

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Filed Under: Advice Tagged With: addiction, attention, COVID-19, Internet, LGBTQ writer, LGBTQ writing, Life lessons, relationships, smartphones, Social Media, technology, The Male Carrie Bradshaw, Writing Community

Sex and Love and Relationships—Shoot Me Now!

June 28, 2020 By Cutter Slagle Leave a Comment

I can’t believe I’m writing this blog article. I can’t believe it’s necessary for me to write this blog article. Yet, here we are: sipping on hard seltzers and gossiping about sex, love, relationships, and the gay community. Fascinating stuff, really. Cue the eye roll. I partly blame myself. If you’re new to my work, shame on you. I wrote an article last year: “Be Careful What You Wish For.” Apparently, though, I didn’t read it. Too many times I’ve wished for a life similar to Carrie Bradshaw’s. Hell, I even refer to myself as “the male Carrie Bradshaw.” So, here we are: drinking hard . . .

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Filed Under: Advice, Dating Advice, Lessons Tagged With: addiction, attention, COVID-19, dating advice, Fiction Writer, LGBTQ blog, LGBTQ dating, LGBTQ tips, LGBTQ writer, LGBTQ writing, Life lessons, Love, Pride, Pride month, relationships, Social Media, The Male Carrie Bradshaw

Rejection Blows (Not In a Good Way)

June 20, 2020 By Cutter Slagle 1 Comment

I don’t often talk about the writing process—more specifically, my writing process—because I don’t find it that interesting. Everyone who writes has a different process; there is no right way or wrong way to write. As long as words somehow magically get down onto the paper, then the process is working. Simply put: If it helps you write, do it. If it doesn’t help you write, don’t do it. End of story. I write every single day. Well, try to write every single day. Fine! I have the intention to write every single day. So far, that seems to be working. I’ve managed to somehow write numerous . . .

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Filed Under: Advice, Lessons Tagged With: LGBTQ blog, LGBTQ dating, Life lessons, Literary Agents, Psychological Suspense Fiction Writer, rejection, rejection letters, relationships, Suspense Fiction Writer, The Male Carrie Bradshaw, Writing Community

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April 8, 2021

Goal weight: To be able to dye my hair blond and not look like Miss Piggy.

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